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Comment on How to communicate with someone with BPD by showard76

showard76 — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:43:38 +0000

Recognising this is very important Kerry, it will help you be able to work on doing better at the things you want to be better at. Your kids probably don’t feel you have let them down out all but I know how it can feel that way as I feel it too for my children. And yes, letting go of the guilty feelings is vital for helping you progress, you can’t change the past but you can have a better future – no regrets but lessons learned from mistakes made is how I view it

Comment on What happens when a person with BPD ends a relationship by showard76

showard76 — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:25:42 +0000

I fully agree with both your priest friend and counsellor about being courteous and having boundaries should any reconnection occur, protecting yourself has to be your priority. I’m glad you have some good support networks to help you as you recover from your experiences

Comment on How to communicate with someone with BPD by showard76

showard76 — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:21:29 +0000

Thanks Don, personally I am not religiously inclined but I can understand why people feel a need to put faith in something outside themselves. I did Google St. Ignatius of Loyola’s Rules of the Discernment of Spirits and I’m sure some people would feel comfort in this, but it isn’t something I could connect with myself.

Comment on What happens when a person with BPD ends a relationship by showard76

showard76 — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:16:14 +0000

I think you are doing the right thing for you and at the end of the day that is very important, you need to be happy and feel trust and respect without those no relationship can survive…

Comment on How to communicate with someone with BPD by showard76

showard76 — Tue, 18 Jun 2013 20:13:37 +0000

Thank You, hope it has been helpful for you